Warsaw: History, Heartbreak, and Hope

The Palace of Culture and Science

I was a bit intrepid coming to a big city after spending time in quaint old towns. I expected all that typically comes with it. The tourist traps, people hawking you, dirty, homeless, needing to hide your wallet in a money belt, and not venturing too far from your hotel. Warsaw was quite the opposite. Over the three days we were here I walked everywhere, sometimes with the group and often by myself and felt completely safe and at ease. Thomasz explained there is a crime measurement used for traveling. Mexico is the highest in the 90’s with New York in the 70’s. Poland is 4. The city is growing as more businesses are moving here because of its strategic location, economic opportunities and quality of life. However, there is a constant reminder everywhere of struggles and resilience of the polish people. The picture above shows an older building with a backdrop of more modern ones. The older building was a gift from Stalin in the 50’s when Poland was under communist rule. They considered tearing it down and kept it up as a reminder that they would never let that happen again.

Walking Through Time – The Royal Way and Old Town

Above are pics of the Warsaw historic Royal Route, a path once reserved for kings and dignitaries.

We strolled through old town and stopped at 11:15 to hear a bugle playing from the clock tower. It happens daily and commemorates the moment the clock on the Castle Tower stopped on September 17, 1939, during the bombing of Warsaw by German planes.

We also had the opportunity to see the changing of the guards at the monument of the unknown soldier. It was created in 1924 to honor those died in WW1. On December, 28 1944 the Germans blew up the Saski Palace where it stood. The building was destroyed, but a fragment of the colonnade over the tomb partially survived. According to an unconfirmed legend, the German sapper did not dare to blow up the grave where the unknown soldier was buried and did not plant explosive charges there.

I decided to find a sidewalk restaurant for a late lunch. Nope did not have pierogi and this time Kielbasa!

We stopped into Holy Cross church and I lit a candle for Mom and Aunt Pat in front of the Sacred Heart alter.

The Jewish Experience in Warsaw

On Sunday we went spent the majority of the day learning about the Jewish people of Poland—from the earliest immigration from Germany, through the horrors of the Holocaust, to the present-day efforts to preserve their culture and memory. We visited the POLIN Museum of the History and afterwards saw a portion of the actual ghetto wall. Horrifying.

A Salute to Ukraine

After a listening and learning about the wars this country has suffered we had the privilege of having a private Ukrainian dinner in our hotel. The owner of the hotel spoke to us about how Poles opened their houses and hearts to refugees to help their neighbor. They had complete empathy for those that are suffering what they themselves did. He had families living at the hotel that became workers and sang for us and spoke about the ongoing war in Ukraine. Their stories were raw and real, filled with resilience. We all stood when they played the Ukrainian national anthem in solidarity.

I leave Warsaw with a fuller heart—and a deeper understanding of what it means to endure, rebuild, and keep singing.

To Warsaw

Toward the Capital, with Stories Along the Way

Second Sighting

On the road to Warsaw we stopped at an open air museum to experience a rural community in Sierpc. It was important to see since the majority of Poland is fields and farms. The word “pole” in Old Slavic refers to a field or open land, suggesting that the Polans were associated with the flat, agricultural landscape of the region.

Before boarding for Warsaw, Tomasz our guide treated us to a tasting of Goldvasser. I really think he wanted everyone to take a nap to make the drive go by faster.

Before the nap he shared some information on family life.

• Generous family support: A one-time $1,250 grant for newborns, $200 monthly child benefit until age 18, and a full year of paid maternity leave—plus two more years with full insurance coverage.

• Multigenerational households: Grandparents, parents, and children often share a home in the countryside, with strong family ties and shared responsibilities.

• Education: Begins at age 7 with strong public schools, and a tracked high school system that pushes students to choose their academic paths early. University education? Free.

• Healthcare: Theoretically universal, but practically overburdened—giving rise to a parallel system of private care.

• Retirement: Women retire at 60, men at 65—acknowledging, perhaps without saying it, the unpaid labor women often carry.

• The national pride in homeownership (84%!) stems from a post-communist policy where people could buy the homes they lived in for a fraction of their value. It was a rare, sudden opportunity to own—and most people took it.

• Over 20 million poles live outside of the country and surprise surprise The biggest place where poles live is United States around 10 million. The biggest Polish US city and is the second largest Polish city in the world only Warsaw more Polish people live in Chicago.

• 86% Catholic, which is quite a percentage, but what is also interesting at 13% unspecified who are ones that were born and raise Catholics, but that’s certain point kind of decided to stay away from religion.

Poland is not so much none for its cuisine. Here, the diet is simple, natural, and meant to fuel a hardworking life. No processed foods.

Speaking of :

We arrived in Warsaw and you guessed it, out for a traditional dinner:

Pierogi: 4

Wozniak sighting : 2 – see pics above!

Frédéric Chopin

Famous composer was born here and after dinner we were treated to a private concert featuring his music in the hotel salon.

Touring Turon,a Castle, and a Pierogi Key Ring

On Thursday, we left Gdansk and headed to Turon.

First stop the Malbork Castle.

It’s the largest brick castle in the world and once housed the kings of Poland—walking through it felt like stepping into a medieval time machine.

After lunch of traditional Polish food we headed to Turon. It is one of Polands best kept secrets. It is this little town full of quiet, everyday Polish life. Think cobbled streets, local bakeries, and not a single Starbucks in sight.

It is unique in that it is the only town that survived the destruction of WW2 so it had real Gothic architecture and nothing rebuilt.

I stayed at Hotel Solaris, right in the heart of the old town. Super cozy, old world charm and actual Skelton keys to open your door.

What really struck me? 90% of the tourists were Polish. It was a town for locals, by locals. There was not very much tourist traps except maybe the pierogi key ring I bought at a souvenir stand. LOL

Come on, how can you resist.

Pierogi vs Wozniak Count:

Pierogi 3: Had them for dinner again including strawberry ones with fresh cream.

Wozniak 1: no sightings on this part of the trip.

Until Next Year, or Sooner……..

Who knew that when I went with Mr. Tom in 2020 to tile some floors for a childrens home in Kenya I would be blogging about my fifth trip. A trip where I met the Kenya board. Some of the most amazing God and faith filled men that have dedicated their lives to communicating and teaching the Word of God and changing the world. Here is Bishop Munai I had two lunches and a breakfast with this man. Every meal was an experience. He is a Bishop of many pastors and churches and someone that wants to change the future of the children of Rehema and Nairobi. We met with Pastor Stanley and Pastor Kennedy and Pastor Issac and taked about how to build a sustainable income for children in need.

While in Kenya, I received a calling to continue to serve the children in need around the world. It is my passion, my mission and my inspiration in life. I am excited to follow that calling and see what more journeys of inspiration are ahead of me.

God Bless to you all.

Just Spending Time With Loved Ones

Thursday and Saturday we spent time at Rehema home with the children so I thought I would combine those pictures together on the next post – get ready for an overload of cute, cute pics. I wanted to use this post to capture my day on Friday – it was really special. It was joyous and a bit sad at the same time. Why? Many of you know the story of George and how he came into my life in 2022 and Grinched Me: “my heart grew three times that day”. Through him I met his brothers and best friends Wesley and Joseph and the four of us became a family. Texting during the week and FaceTiming every Friday for years. Joseph, Wesley and I spent the day together on Friday in memory of George and did him honor as we know he would like.

We went to the last place the 4 of us were together and laughed as we remembered the times we shared. We miss you George.

Today was a shopping day for Mama Karen and to help where I could for the boys to thank them for all that they did and do. Off to the mall of course and started at the Friday Masai market to buy some local treasures. It is a negotiating event and lucky to have Wesley with me. I am awful at it and every year Wesley tries to coach me. I would see something, let out a squill of delight and point to something and say I want it. Wesley would just look at me and say “no, you don’t and just start walking”. “But, Wesley I…..just keep walking” he would say again….1…2…3: “Mister, Madame let’s discuss the price”. That’s all Wesley had to hear and he would start at half and work his from there.

The boys would carry my treasures and here they are negotiating for an UBER to come pick us up and hire for the rest of the day since there was more shopping to do. It was cheaper and more convenient to come to a price for 4 hours and multiple locations then to keep trying to hire one at every stop.

Next stop: MGallery for lunch. The area we were in was the location of the UN, all the embassies and homes for the international diplomats. Passed the USA building with the eagle proudly displayed – it was actually comforting for sure.

We treated ourselves to the rooftop Greek restaurant and if you remember the other rooftop restaurant we went to last Thursday for Joseph’s birthday – you can see it in the distance. Give a click on the MGallery link above and you will see where we are, how close to the UN and why there is so much green trees in Nairobi!

The afternoon was dedicated to the boys. They don’t have a Target, or Walmart but a shop with all imports from China filled with all the same items.

Next stop: grocery store for 24 year old standard cuisine: rice, cereal, crisps and treats – family size of course.

If I had could pick a fun-filled, and heart filling day, this was it. Of course, every day is like this here – and you wonder why I come back year after year? Guess what — already planning next trip – but you already knew that.

Game Night

Tonight we invited all of the young adults that work at Rehema plus the young girls that went to Bukura with us over to the guest house for pizza and game night. I have been introduced to so many new group games, I can’t wait to share on one of our JOI hiking trips. Have you heard of Snaps, Pass the Scissors, or Who’s Triangle is It? When the children “age” out of the home they are supported for a few months to get them on their feet and give them time to find employment which is very difficult in Nairobi. This may be my new mission to tackle.

I have said to many of you, I thought I was coming to save the babies and your children. Every time I come I am comforted to see that all of your donations and all of the money we raise in the US is 100% going to the helping these children thrive now and into their future.

2024 Annual Report

I hope you will take a moment to read the annual report to see just how the funds are used.

Last day in Bukura

We had a parting shot of all of us in Bukura before we left for Nairobi. You see in the picture the children, Aunties and us. We were not leaving until 7pm out of Kisumu so had most of the day to finish up projects, play with the kids and say our goodbyes. Our projects were to patch and paint the dining area which Mr. Tom and I tiled years ago. The table that the young ones eat at was missing a bench on one side and broken on the other. Myson replaced the benches and reinforced the table. He also fixed the kitchen roof from leaking and secured the current roof. We all felt we left the place a little better then when we arrived.

Belinda and Kevin came home today from boarding school – common for high school in this area. I ended up walking into the village with Kevin and Lois to repair Kevin’s phone so that he could use the headphones I bought him. Doesn’t matter if you are an 18 year-old in a village in Africa or a town in the US — music and a phone are critical. We stopped at the store for a cold drink and a treat of chocolate.

Lois, Kevin and Karen

As we gathered in the yard to say our goodbyes Myson entertained the kids with a demonstration of his ability to ride a unicycle — and juggling. At one point had Timo on his shoulders while juggling. A man of many talents and such a blessing to have him on our trip and with us.

Over the years I have grown close to the ladies that take care of me and the children. Saying goodbye is always hard and I leave knowing that the children will be loved and taken care of. I promised to return and made them the same promise again.

We headed back to Nairobi to have another meeting with the PEFA Board on Wednesday for lunch and game night with the young adults. There are many of the children of Rehema that have “aged” out and on their own. Some of them work for Rehema – as we do – and invited them over for a pizza party and game night. When I asked Wesley where to get the pizza he said — why Domino’s of course!

On The 7th Day……….

Hand in Hand Across the Continents

Today, we all went to church with the older kids. It’s part of PEFA, which stands for Pentecostal Evangelistic Fellowship of Africa. PEFA actually traces its roots back to the US, with the former Elim Missionaries Evangelistic Association started by Apostle Ivan Q. Spencer from Lima, New York. I hadn’t even heard of Elim until I met Rehema, and practically in my back yard. Alex, who grew up in Rehema, Nairobi, is at Elim on a scholarship and staying at my home to take care of my cats. So basically, I came to Africa to look after his home while he’s looking after mine.

We walked to church, which was just a quick 3/4 mile down the street. Along the way, we passed a bunch of folks heading to their own churches and saw cows and sheep munching on grass by the sides. The service is a total change from what I’m used to from my Catholic upbringing. It’s super lively, dynamic, and full of energy, packed with music and people really getting into the worship!

We were greeted at the church and told to head to the front to say hi to everyone. It felt great to see some familiar faces and get big handshakes and hugs. Myson was asked to share a message as a guest, and presented a wonderful lesson about Cain and Able.

The afternoon was mix of playtime, gift giving and patching and prepping the wall in the dining room for a fresh coat of paint tomorrow. The night ended with devotions, praying and bible reading — and rounds of games.

I hope your Sunday was as wonderful and fulfilling as mine.

It was old home week in Bukura

Yesterday was transition day waking up in Nairobi and going to sleep in Bukura. We took a short trip from Nairobi to Kisumu and then the 1 1/2 hour drive to Rehema Home – in the dark. It is a wild ride and not for the faint of heart. There are no stop signs, speed limits, or street lights and many vehicles do not have lights…..it is a white knuckle experience for sure. It filled my heart to be greeted by the children and Aunties that I have so missed over the year.

The next morning we went down to the market to get food for group. This year the group to Bukura is quite large. There are the 7 of us and we brought 4 young ladies that grew up in Rehema. We bought fresh fruits and vegetables and you will see below treats for the children.

Every year brings a new taste sensation. A common way to eat a fresh mango is to have them cut it up and sprinkle with a spicy salt mix. We all gave it a try with various degrees of appreciation for the taste.

We spent the afternoon with the children sharing the blue lollypops and playing in the yard. It is so amazing to me to see these children grow over the past 5 years. Truly a wonderful feeling when they remember my name, and the traditions we have started. Lois said to me, “I can see why you love this place.” I really do.

Throughout the day I would pass people that I knew and they would all stop to say hello and welcome me back. This is Jack, you may remember him from years gone by as the one that would drive us around and help Mr. Tom find all the tools and materials we needed for all of our home improvement projects.

And what would Rehema be without me loving on some babies. Lady the cat had kittens and I could not help but try and figure out how to get one home. There were also two new babies welcomed into the Rehema family and I could not help but try and figure our how to get the one home. Kidding – not kidding.